Pause

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In today’s world the high pace of living leaves very little space for pause!

That is sad. Because pauses are key to our overall happiness and to keeping a healthy life balance. Pauses are also crucial to dating with success.

How do you feel if you go on a date while in a stressful state of mind?

Are you able to be fully present with your date?

Most likely the answer is “no” and your state of mind could very well mean the difference between a successful date and a not so successful date.

Being in a relaxed and open state of mind creates a great foundation for a successful date.

So how do you go about pauses, when it seems there is very little time?

  1. Accept that pauses are “need to have” – not “nice to have”
  2. Acknowledge that time has to do with prioritizing
  3. Ask yourself what you could leave out in favor of a short pause?
  4. Give yourself permission to pause in what ever way works best for you
  5. Benefit from the pause

Pauses can be very productive in their own way.

For example even just a 10 minutes break in the form of a power nap could get your create mind going and free it up so that you will come across with a much more clear intention for your first date.

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Intention

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Setting your intention can be very helpful when you are dating.

This is true whether you are on a “business date”, or on a romantic date.

A simple way to set your intention is to ask yourself the following question:

“What do I want from going out on this date?”

Of course, you are free to set whatever intention that you want to.

However, as one of the main obstacles to dating with success quite often has to do with (unrealistic) expectation, I would suggest that you set a very simple and doable intention which will help you experience the success that you want.

For example, “I want to relax and get to know this person which will help me decide if I want to see him again”.

Of course, “Rome was not built in one day” but it is possible to gather enough info on the first date to see, if this date is a match for a second date.

“One date at a time” will lead you to dating with success.

The benefit of setting a clear intention is:

  1. Setting an intention creates clarity and focus
  2. Setting an intention gives you a reference point to go back to
  3. Setting an intention keeps you on the ground and in the now rather than being confused

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Compassion

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It’s so easy to judge one another and jump to quick conclusions. 

This is especially likely to happen on a first date since both of you can be a bit nervous.

Consequently we may start to analyze (with SWOT analysis running through our brains) as if a date is some kind of business venture. While the analytical part can be useful, it isn’t really helpful to begin with – at least not, if you want to date with success.

Getting to know each other takes time. Period!

And whether you are on your best date or your worst date, it is crucial to drop the judgment and simply relax into being present with another person. Although being relaxed could be easier said than done, at least try not to get to too “hang up” about the whole thing.

If a date does not go so well, I encourage you to collect your compassion rather than making quick judgment about your date (or yourself).

Simply remember that everyone is probably doing the best that they can, and if someone misbehaves, there is probably a good reason for that.

Don’t take it personally; it rarely is.

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In step no 8 you will learn how to date with success! 

Courage

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The best way to attract your Mr. Right is by being who you are. Period!

Sounds pretty simple right, and most of you would probably agree to that…

However, in this day and age sometimes it is not always as simple as it sounds to “just be who you are”.

The collective messages we get from the media often points in a different direction.

As women (and probably men too) we are constantly bombarded with the underlying message that we are not good enough (looking) as we are, for example we are encouraged conduct to a certain body image, or social behavior.

Many times these messages and images are dictated by advertisement.

We may not think too much about it, as a lot of this kind of stuff takes place unconsciously.

But do stop to think about it! There is a whole industry out there making big money from getting women to buy what ever it takes to look and feel good (enough)”. Everything from make up to cosmetic surgery, clothing, diets and so forth.

Don’t get me wrong. I don’t believe we should go back to being cave women.

Putting your best foot firmly forward is a good thing. However, if you want to date with success and attract your Mr. Right, you have got to be who you are and not adapt to how someone else might want you to look, be or act.

Collect your courage and be the real you! 

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Connection

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Connection is a fundamental human need. Period!

Research shows that without connection we (especially as women) are much more likely to feel stressed which really isn’t a great state to be in if you want to date with success.

And more so, in more extreme case, dis-connection can actually lead to addiction (yes, resent research proves that most addictions, like alcohol or drugs are actually due to a sense of isolation and dis-connection).

So where am I going with all of this connection talk?

It simple. The point of this blog is to encourage you to connect and surround yourself with people who are supportive of who you are.

And what does that have to do with dating?

A heck of a lot actually. Because, if you are dating from scarcity (or a stressed state of mind) – meaning that you need a relationship merely to fill up the gap in your stomach – that would be a recipe for disaster and how not to date with success.

(Because most likely you will end up with someone who matches that feeling which is subject for a whole other blog to explore).

Rather, I encourage you to connect with a great group of people (could be anyone with whom you feel a connection) and “fill up your love-cup” before you go dating.

Filling up your love-cup means being real and having real conversations straight from your heart.

So what are ways to connect?

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Keep It Simple Sweetheart

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You’e probably already know the “KISS” formula.

I like to apply that to dating too. And here is the point. Way too often we complicate the whole dating process by making it a lot more complicated than it really is. 

For example, take the very first date. Quite often our own expectations will drive us crazy and sabotage any kind of potential. This happens when we want to get all of the answers on the very first date:

Like: Will it be forever?, could we live together, will he like my kids (pets, or ….. you name it), and so the list goes on.

But here is the catch:

The is absolutely NO way that you can know all of that within the first date. Instead, “take your time” in getting to know each other and know that the first date can be very awkward because you are both probably a bit nervous.

Take Suzette’s Dating Guide’s best tip: 

The only question you need to ask yourself after a first date is the following:

“Do I want to see him again?”

That’s it. Pretty simply wouldn’t you say?

And then after then next date you can ask yourself the same question again.

There really is no need to know all of the answers within the first few dates, as this will only add to unwanted pressure and not so successful dates.

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Trust Your Intution

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Why don’t we women (always) trust our intuition?

Let me start out by asking you a question:

”Has jour intuition/gut feeling ever been wrong?”

If you are like most women that I have talked to the answer is loud and clear ”no!”. Period.

For example. Many women have told me that the red signals were there in the initial stages of dating but they choose to continue to date a certain man anyway.

Sounds familiar to you?

If so you are not the only one. The questions that then remains is the following:

”If you know that what your intuition is telling you is right why then do you quite often choose to let your rationale win?

When it comes to dating – as a former relationship coach – I would say that the #1 reason we do not take advice from our intuition is the following:

Our wish to fall in love feels more appealing that listening to and trusting our intuition as this would perhaps mean that we should stop dating a certain guy and put our efforts into meeting someone who is a better match for us.

We simply fear being alone.

On the more positive note. Sometimes we women do trust our intuition, and once you begin to trust your intuition – and act on it – that is when the real magic begins and great stuff happens.

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Happy Easter

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This is the time to relax a bit, let your hair down, make a cup of tea and read Suzette’s Dating Guide which is a great read for the holidays …

Learn the 12 steps to dating with success. You will be glad that you did.

Dating will take on a new meaning once you read Suzette’s Dating Guide and begin to experience the benefits of knowing the 12 steps to dating with success from the inside out.

Remember every great relationship starts with you.

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Happy Reading and HAPPY EASTER !!

 

 

 

Your Love-Vision

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Allow Yourself To Dream Big

Who hasn’t had their heart broken at least one time in their life?

Don’t let it get you down.

Having your heart broken – as painful as it may have been – is all part of the human experience.

It is never too late to dream big again!

Remember, EVERY great relationship begins with you.

It may even begin with YOU dreaming BIG.

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Life is Too Sweet To Be Bitter!

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Sometimes life doesn’t seem fair. 

Sometimes a date does go the way you wanted it to.

Sometimes you feel hurt, or rejected, or (you fill in the blank …)

Suzette gets it.

But despite of that, Suzette is here to tell you that “Life is still too sweet to be bitter”. Period!

If you want to attract Mr. Right, you cannot let your past experiences get in the way of your future too much.

Feel what ever you need to feel (what you cannot feel you cannot heal) but don’t let it get in your way of experiencing Great Love, again!

Life is too sweet to be bitter, period!

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