Intention

SuzettesDatingGuideIntention

GET SUZETTE’S DATING GUIDE TODAY

Setting your intention can be very helpful when you are dating.

This is true whether you are on a “business date”, or on a romantic date.

A simple way to set your intention is to ask yourself the following question:

“What do I want from going out on this date?”

Of course, you are free to set whatever intention that you want to.

However, as one of the main obstacles to dating with success quite often has to do with (unrealistic) expectation, I would suggest that you set a very simple and doable intention which will help you experience the success that you want.

For example, “I want to relax and get to know this person which will help me decide if I want to see him again”.

Of course, “Rome was not built in one day” but it is possible to gather enough info on the first date to see, if this date is a match for a second date.

“One date at a time” will lead you to dating with success.

The benefit of setting a clear intention is:

  1. Setting an intention creates clarity and focus
  2. Setting an intention gives you a reference point to go back to
  3. Setting an intention keeps you on the ground and in the now rather than being confused

GET SUZETTE’S DATING GUIDE TODAY 

Read step no 8 and learn more about how to date with success.

Connection

SuzettesDatingGuideConnection 

GET SUZETTE’S DATING GUIDE TODAY

Connection is a fundamental human need. Period!

Research shows that without connection we (especially as women) are much more likely to feel stressed which really isn’t a great state to be in if you want to date with success.

And more so, in more extreme case, dis-connection can actually lead to addiction (yes, resent research proves that most addictions, like alcohol or drugs are actually due to a sense of isolation and dis-connection).

So where am I going with all of this connection talk?

It simple. The point of this blog is to encourage you to connect and surround yourself with people who are supportive of who you are.

And what does that have to do with dating?

A heck of a lot actually. Because, if you are dating from scarcity (or a stressed state of mind) – meaning that you need a relationship merely to fill up the gap in your stomach – that would be a recipe for disaster and how not to date with success.

(Because most likely you will end up with someone who matches that feeling which is subject for a whole other blog to explore).

Rather, I encourage you to connect with a great group of people (could be anyone with whom you feel a connection) and “fill up your love-cup” before you go dating.

Filling up your love-cup means being real and having real conversations straight from your heart.

So what are ways to connect?

GET SUZETTE’S DATING GUIDE TODAY and get more tips on how to fill up your love-cup, step no 12.

Keep It Simple Sweetheart

SuzettesDatingGuideKiss

GET SUZETTE’S DATING GUIDE TODAY

You’e probably already know the “KISS” formula.

I like to apply that to dating too. And here is the point. Way too often we complicate the whole dating process by making it a lot more complicated than it really is. 

For example, take the very first date. Quite often our own expectations will drive us crazy and sabotage any kind of potential. This happens when we want to get all of the answers on the very first date:

Like: Will it be forever?, could we live together, will he like my kids (pets, or ….. you name it), and so the list goes on.

But here is the catch:

The is absolutely NO way that you can know all of that within the first date. Instead, “take your time” in getting to know each other and know that the first date can be very awkward because you are both probably a bit nervous.

Take Suzette’s Dating Guide’s best tip: 

The only question you need to ask yourself after a first date is the following:

“Do I want to see him again?”

That’s it. Pretty simply wouldn’t you say?

And then after then next date you can ask yourself the same question again.

There really is no need to know all of the answers within the first few dates, as this will only add to unwanted pressure and not so successful dates.

GET SUZETTE’S DATING GUIDE TODAY step no 8, and learn more about how to have a great first date!

Keep It Up!

Suzettes Dating Guide

GET SUZETTE’S DATING GUIDE TODAY

Some day are up. Some could be more down. That’s part of life.

If you are having a “bad” day, or experiencing a melt down of some kind – and we all do at times – it is important to remember that it is only temporary, and to not let it get in your way of dating with success.

Give yourself permission to feel what ever you feel  – what you cannot feel you cannot heal – but do think of it this way:

The sun is always shining above the clouds. Yes. It’s true and this simple fact is worth keeping in mind on the days that may seem not so sunny. Whatever the challenge may be,  know that it is only temporary.

Read Suzette’s Dating Guide step no 11 and get great tips on how to keep it all up while you are dating with success.

 

80% is Showing Up!

GET SUZETTE’S DATING GUIDE TODAY 

Untitled

Woody Allan is often quoted for his statement that 80% in life is showing up!

The same “rule” applies to Dating With Success.

You’ve got to be willing to DARE showing up on a date, or in life.

Remember if you keep doing what you’ve always done, you will keep getting the same result.

GET SUZETTE’S DATING GUIDE TODAY and learn the 12 steps to Dating With Success!