Connection

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Connection is a fundamental human need. Period!

Research shows that without connection we (especially as women) are much more likely to feel stressed which really isn’t a great state to be in if you want to date with success.

And more so, in more extreme case, dis-connection can actually lead to addiction (yes, resent research proves that most addictions, like alcohol or drugs are actually due to a sense of isolation and dis-connection).

So where am I going with all of this connection talk?

It simple. The point of this blog is to encourage you to connect and surround yourself with people who are supportive of who you are.

And what does that have to do with dating?

A heck of a lot actually. Because, if you are dating from scarcity (or a stressed state of mind) – meaning that you need a relationship merely to fill up the gap in your stomach – that would be a recipe for disaster and how not to date with success.

(Because most likely you will end up with someone who matches that feeling which is subject for a whole other blog to explore).

Rather, I encourage you to connect with a great group of people (could be anyone with whom you feel a connection) and “fill up your love-cup” before you go dating.

Filling up your love-cup means being real and having real conversations straight from your heart.

So what are ways to connect?

GET SUZETTE’S DATING GUIDE TODAY and get more tips on how to fill up your love-cup, step no 12.

Match – or Not!

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When it comes to dating fear of rejection is often holding us back!

And let’s be honest, “fear of rejection” has cast its nasty spell in other areas of our lives too.

For example, how about job interviews, or selling your ideas to a new customer?

So today, we will look at the fear of rejection and recognize “fear of rejection” for what it is.

First of all, fear takes place in the mind. Fear is NOT something outside of you.

Quite on the contrary, fear lives inside YOUR mind and only you hold the key to change the patterns in your own mind (this can be a hard pill to swallow but it’s true).

Second of all, rejection is not real. 

What?

Yes, it’s true too. Rejection is not real. No one can reject you.

However, they can reject going on a date with you, or what ever it is that you have to offer. But as long as you are alive – and you are, if you are reading this blog – no one can never reject you.

Third of all and most importunely! Either there is a match or a no match, and a match would clearly want to be with you, so why would you want to waste your time on someone who doesn’t want to be with you?

GET SUZETTE’S DATING GUIDE TODAY read step no 8 and learn how to deal with the fear of rejection.

Extra bonus: You can apply this principles to social (or business) dating too!

Suzette’s Dating Tip no 1

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Suzette's Dating Tip No 1 - Be Yourself!
Suzette’s Dating Tip No 1 – Be Yourself!

Best dating tip ever?

Be Yourself and watch who shows up …

Don’t pretend. Just be you.

It’s easy. When you are yourself those that do not like you will sort themselves out and you wouldn’t want to be with them anyways.

Stay tuned and watch who shows up that wants to be with the real you.

Dating should be relaxed and fun an opportunity to get to know each other.

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Are you in or out of love?

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Dating is a great opportunity to get to know another person, and letting yourself be know as well.

Your journey to dating with success can be a lot of fun, and – if you are honest – it can at times be a bit  exhausting too.

But it doesn’t have to be that way.

So what to do if you find yourself overwhelmed by the whole dating scene?

 

Top tips for staying “in love” while dating with success: 

  1. Check in to see if you are operating out of fear or out of love
  2. If you are operating out of fear, you may want to take a break for some time
  3. Do self-loving activities, eg. see friends, take a walk in nature, paint a picture or whatever works for you to get back and into a state of love

When you are in the state of love you will attract your perfect love-match
– if you are in the state of fear, you will attract your perfect fear-match!

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BOOK release December 2012, stay tuned!