In today’s world the high pace of living leaves very little space for pause!
That is sad. Because pauses are key to our overall happiness and to keeping a healthy life balance. Pauses are also crucial to dating with success.
How do you feel if you go on a date while in a stressful state of mind?
Are you able to be fully present with your date?
Most likely the answer is “no” and your state of mind could very well mean the difference between a successful date and a not so successful date.
Being in a relaxed and open state of mind creates a great foundation for a successful date.
So how do you go about pauses, when it seems there is very little time?
- Accept that pauses are “need to have” – not “nice to have”
- Acknowledge that time has to do with prioritizing
- Ask yourself what you could leave out in favor of a short pause?
- Give yourself permission to pause in what ever way works best for you
- Benefit from the pause
Pauses can be very productive in their own way.
For example even just a 10 minutes break in the form of a power nap could get your create mind going and free it up so that you will come across with a much more clear intention for your first date.
Read step no 11 and get great tips on how to relax your way to dating with success.