Are You a Career Woman, or a Woman With a Career?

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There is much good to be said about today’s world of possibilities and how we as women have come along way since our grandmothers. For example, we now have the opportunity to actively pursue a career of our choices.

However, as with everything else there could be a downside to this too.

Being caught up in a career has it’s own ways. If you are a career woman, you have probably found out a lot about how certain strategies may work very well for you, while others doesn’t seem to be working at all.

In other words, you tend to do what best works of you.

However, when it comes to dating with success, here is where the confusion sets in.

Because, if you try to apply the same (success) strategies that you use for work to dating with success, chances are that – most likely – you are not experiencing the success that you want to.

Strategies for success at work usually doesn’t apply well for dating with success.

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Intention

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Setting your intention can be very helpful when you are dating.

This is true whether you are on a “business date”, or on a romantic date.

A simple way to set your intention is to ask yourself the following question:

“What do I want from going out on this date?”

Of course, you are free to set whatever intention that you want to.

However, as one of the main obstacles to dating with success quite often has to do with (unrealistic) expectation, I would suggest that you set a very simple and doable intention which will help you experience the success that you want.

For example, “I want to relax and get to know this person which will help me decide if I want to see him again”.

Of course, “Rome was not built in one day” but it is possible to gather enough info on the first date to see, if this date is a match for a second date.

“One date at a time” will lead you to dating with success.

The benefit of setting a clear intention is:

  1. Setting an intention creates clarity and focus
  2. Setting an intention gives you a reference point to go back to
  3. Setting an intention keeps you on the ground and in the now rather than being confused

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Compassion

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It’s so easy to judge one another and jump to quick conclusions. 

This is especially likely to happen on a first date since both of you can be a bit nervous.

Consequently we may start to analyze (with SWOT analysis running through our brains) as if a date is some kind of business venture. While the analytical part can be useful, it isn’t really helpful to begin with – at least not, if you want to date with success.

Getting to know each other takes time. Period!

And whether you are on your best date or your worst date, it is crucial to drop the judgment and simply relax into being present with another person. Although being relaxed could be easier said than done, at least try not to get to too “hang up” about the whole thing.

If a date does not go so well, I encourage you to collect your compassion rather than making quick judgment about your date (or yourself).

Simply remember that everyone is probably doing the best that they can, and if someone misbehaves, there is probably a good reason for that.

Don’t take it personally; it rarely is.

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80% is Showing Up!

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Woody Allan is often quoted for his statement that 80% in life is showing up!

The same “rule” applies to Dating With Success.

You’ve got to be willing to DARE showing up on a date, or in life.

Remember if you keep doing what you’ve always done, you will keep getting the same result.

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Mind Your Attitude!

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Keeping a positive attitude matters. Period!

Now why is that?

It is pretty simple. By keeping a positive attitude you will draw to you more success with dating. Of course, you have to do some action too. However, showing up on a date with a negative attitude will not do much good for you.

Look at dancers. Any dance great teacher will tell you all about how attitude matters and how your own attitude and  body language actually directs a large part of the response that you get when showing up on the dance floor.

The same goes with dating. Keep a positive attitude and expect the best.

Now does this mean that you should always keep a happy smile on your face?

No. It is, of course, perfectly okay to feel sad at times. However, do keep in mind that – generally speaking – your own attitude has a lot to do with the response that you get when you are dating.

For that reason it is always a good idea to examine your own attitude.

What is YOUR attitude, when it comes to dating?

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Suzette’s Dating Tip no 1

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Suzette's Dating Tip No 1 - Be Yourself!
Suzette’s Dating Tip No 1 – Be Yourself!

Best dating tip ever?

Be Yourself and watch who shows up …

Don’t pretend. Just be you.

It’s easy. When you are yourself those that do not like you will sort themselves out and you wouldn’t want to be with them anyways.

Stay tuned and watch who shows up that wants to be with the real you.

Dating should be relaxed and fun an opportunity to get to know each other.

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