Compassion

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It’s so easy to judge one another and jump to quick conclusions. 

This is especially likely to happen on a first date since both of you can be a bit nervous.

Consequently we may start to analyze (with SWOT analysis running through our brains) as if a date is some kind of business venture. While the analytical part can be useful, it isn’t really helpful to begin with – at least not, if you want to date with success.

Getting to know each other takes time. Period!

And whether you are on your best date or your worst date, it is crucial to drop the judgment and simply relax into being present with another person. Although being relaxed could be easier said than done, at least try not to get to too “hang up” about the whole thing.

If a date does not go so well, I encourage you to collect your compassion rather than making quick judgment about your date (or yourself).

Simply remember that everyone is probably doing the best that they can, and if someone misbehaves, there is probably a good reason for that.

Don’t take it personally; it rarely is.

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Keep It Simple Sweetheart

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You’e probably already know the “KISS” formula.

I like to apply that to dating too. And here is the point. Way too often we complicate the whole dating process by making it a lot more complicated than it really is. 

For example, take the very first date. Quite often our own expectations will drive us crazy and sabotage any kind of potential. This happens when we want to get all of the answers on the very first date:

Like: Will it be forever?, could we live together, will he like my kids (pets, or ….. you name it), and so the list goes on.

But here is the catch:

The is absolutely NO way that you can know all of that within the first date. Instead, “take your time” in getting to know each other and know that the first date can be very awkward because you are both probably a bit nervous.

Take Suzette’s Dating Guide’s best tip: 

The only question you need to ask yourself after a first date is the following:

“Do I want to see him again?”

That’s it. Pretty simply wouldn’t you say?

And then after then next date you can ask yourself the same question again.

There really is no need to know all of the answers within the first few dates, as this will only add to unwanted pressure and not so successful dates.

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Take Your Time

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Did you ever go on a date only to find yourself bombarded with lots of quite personal questions?

Maybe it felt uncomfortable. Because, the truth is: building trust takes time.

Some questions are appropriate on a first date and some are definitely NOT.

The line is fine though and it is only YOU who knows how much you want to reveal about yourself on a first date.

But here is the thing. Many women do NOT want to answer very personal questions on a first date and yet the do. Why? Oh, and get this one. It is the “nice-girl-syndrome”. We feel obliged to answer even though we don’t want to.

Dating with success has nothing to do with confession.

You don’t have to answer that which you don’t want to answer to. Period!

On the other hand, of course, you don’t want to come across like the CEO of “Secret Service” or, worse, like a real bitch – which I know you are not because otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this post …

And, fortunately, there are quite a few, other ways to come across as friendly, yet be able to draw the line and to do so with a friendly smile on your face and a humorous sparkle in your eyes and it all has to do with taking your time.

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Mind Your Attitude!

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Keeping a positive attitude matters. Period!

Now why is that?

It is pretty simple. By keeping a positive attitude you will draw to you more success with dating. Of course, you have to do some action too. However, showing up on a date with a negative attitude will not do much good for you.

Look at dancers. Any dance great teacher will tell you all about how attitude matters and how your own attitude and  body language actually directs a large part of the response that you get when showing up on the dance floor.

The same goes with dating. Keep a positive attitude and expect the best.

Now does this mean that you should always keep a happy smile on your face?

No. It is, of course, perfectly okay to feel sad at times. However, do keep in mind that – generally speaking – your own attitude has a lot to do with the response that you get when you are dating.

For that reason it is always a good idea to examine your own attitude.

What is YOUR attitude, when it comes to dating?

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Use the AA+ Formula

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What does AA+ have to do with love?

Well a lot! The AA+ is a simple formula that will help you attract a lot more love.

This is the AA+ formula in a nutshell:

A – Acceptance
A – Acknowledgement
A – Appreciation

Apply the AA+ formula when you are dating and you will be amazed at what happens …

And hey! Let’s be honest here.

Did you ever attract Mr. right by being the opposite: judgmental, critical and disapproving?

Heck no. Instead, Suzette’s Dating Guide suggest that you join the AA+ Club.

However, this doesn’t mean that you do not set clear boundaries. Of course, you do.

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Ps. You could even use the AA+ formula for your self (accept yourself, acknowledge yourself, appreciate yourself) – now that’s a tough one, right?