Keep It Simple Sweetheart

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You’e probably already know the “KISS” formula.

I like to apply that to dating too. And here is the point. Way too often we complicate the whole dating process by making it a lot more complicated than it really is. 

For example, take the very first date. Quite often our own expectations will drive us crazy and sabotage any kind of potential. This happens when we want to get all of the answers on the very first date:

Like: Will it be forever?, could we live together, will he like my kids (pets, or ….. you name it), and so the list goes on.

But here is the catch:

The is absolutely NO way that you can know all of that within the first date. Instead, “take your time” in getting to know each other and know that the first date can be very awkward because you are both probably a bit nervous.

Take Suzette’s Dating Guide’s best tip: 

The only question you need to ask yourself after a first date is the following:

“Do I want to see him again?”

That’s it. Pretty simply wouldn’t you say?

And then after then next date you can ask yourself the same question again.

There really is no need to know all of the answers within the first few dates, as this will only add to unwanted pressure and not so successful dates.

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Match – or Not!

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When it comes to dating fear of rejection is often holding us back!

And let’s be honest, “fear of rejection” has cast its nasty spell in other areas of our lives too.

For example, how about job interviews, or selling your ideas to a new customer?

So today, we will look at the fear of rejection and recognize “fear of rejection” for what it is.

First of all, fear takes place in the mind. Fear is NOT something outside of you.

Quite on the contrary, fear lives inside YOUR mind and only you hold the key to change the patterns in your own mind (this can be a hard pill to swallow but it’s true).

Second of all, rejection is not real. 

What?

Yes, it’s true too. Rejection is not real. No one can reject you.

However, they can reject going on a date with you, or what ever it is that you have to offer. But as long as you are alive – and you are, if you are reading this blog – no one can never reject you.

Third of all and most importunely! Either there is a match or a no match, and a match would clearly want to be with you, so why would you want to waste your time on someone who doesn’t want to be with you?

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Extra bonus: You can apply this principles to social (or business) dating too!

Take Your Time

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Did you ever go on a date only to find yourself bombarded with lots of quite personal questions?

Maybe it felt uncomfortable. Because, the truth is: building trust takes time.

Some questions are appropriate on a first date and some are definitely NOT.

The line is fine though and it is only YOU who knows how much you want to reveal about yourself on a first date.

But here is the thing. Many women do NOT want to answer very personal questions on a first date and yet the do. Why? Oh, and get this one. It is the “nice-girl-syndrome”. We feel obliged to answer even though we don’t want to.

Dating with success has nothing to do with confession.

You don’t have to answer that which you don’t want to answer to. Period!

On the other hand, of course, you don’t want to come across like the CEO of “Secret Service” or, worse, like a real bitch – which I know you are not because otherwise you wouldn’t be reading this post …

And, fortunately, there are quite a few, other ways to come across as friendly, yet be able to draw the line and to do so with a friendly smile on your face and a humorous sparkle in your eyes and it all has to do with taking your time.

Get Suzette’s Dating Guide today read step no 8 and improve your communication skills …

Keep It Up!

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Some day are up. Some could be more down. That’s part of life.

If you are having a “bad” day, or experiencing a melt down of some kind – and we all do at times – it is important to remember that it is only temporary, and to not let it get in your way of dating with success.

Give yourself permission to feel what ever you feel  – what you cannot feel you cannot heal – but do think of it this way:

The sun is always shining above the clouds. Yes. It’s true and this simple fact is worth keeping in mind on the days that may seem not so sunny. Whatever the challenge may be,  know that it is only temporary.

Read Suzette’s Dating Guide step no 11 and get great tips on how to keep it all up while you are dating with success.

 

Healthy Entitlement

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For some reason many of us women seem to source our sense of entitlement from external sources – but that is a sure recipe for how not to date with success.

If this sounds to “woo woo” for you, please let me put it in very simple terms and start out by asking you a short but important question.

How many times have let yourself (your own sense of worthiness) be defined by a man?

And if he left, did your sense of worthiness leave too (as in “gone with the wind”)?

If you want to date with success, you must let yourself (your own sense of worthiness) be defined, not by a man (or any other person for that matter) but, primarily on the worthiness that is already WITHIN YOU – regardless of your single status.

How to access your inner sense of worthiness, does have to do with a certain amount of inner work – sorry girls, there is no way around it – because EVERY great relationship begins with YOU.

But here is the good news:

It is absolutely doable – you don’t have to continue the same old “stories” ….

Read Suzette’s Dating Guide step no 5 and learn how to get started …

Trust Your Intution

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Why don’t we women (always) trust our intuition?

Let me start out by asking you a question:

”Has jour intuition/gut feeling ever been wrong?”

If you are like most women that I have talked to the answer is loud and clear ”no!”. Period.

For example. Many women have told me that the red signals were there in the initial stages of dating but they choose to continue to date a certain man anyway.

Sounds familiar to you?

If so you are not the only one. The questions that then remains is the following:

”If you know that what your intuition is telling you is right why then do you quite often choose to let your rationale win?

When it comes to dating – as a former relationship coach – I would say that the #1 reason we do not take advice from our intuition is the following:

Our wish to fall in love feels more appealing that listening to and trusting our intuition as this would perhaps mean that we should stop dating a certain guy and put our efforts into meeting someone who is a better match for us.

We simply fear being alone.

On the more positive note. Sometimes we women do trust our intuition, and once you begin to trust your intuition – and act on it – that is when the real magic begins and great stuff happens.

Read Suzette’s Dating Guide, and learn how to trust your intuition.

Happy Easter

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This is the time to relax a bit, let your hair down, make a cup of tea and read Suzette’s Dating Guide which is a great read for the holidays …

Learn the 12 steps to dating with success. You will be glad that you did.

Dating will take on a new meaning once you read Suzette’s Dating Guide and begin to experience the benefits of knowing the 12 steps to dating with success from the inside out.

Remember every great relationship starts with you.

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Happy Reading and HAPPY EASTER !!

 

 

 

Your Love-Vision

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Allow Yourself To Dream Big

Who hasn’t had their heart broken at least one time in their life?

Don’t let it get you down.

Having your heart broken – as painful as it may have been – is all part of the human experience.

It is never too late to dream big again!

Remember, EVERY great relationship begins with you.

It may even begin with YOU dreaming BIG.

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Life is Too Sweet To Be Bitter!

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Sometimes life doesn’t seem fair. 

Sometimes a date does go the way you wanted it to.

Sometimes you feel hurt, or rejected, or (you fill in the blank …)

Suzette gets it.

But despite of that, Suzette is here to tell you that “Life is still too sweet to be bitter”. Period!

If you want to attract Mr. Right, you cannot let your past experiences get in the way of your future too much.

Feel what ever you need to feel (what you cannot feel you cannot heal) but don’t let it get in your way of experiencing Great Love, again!

Life is too sweet to be bitter, period!

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80% is Showing Up!

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Woody Allan is often quoted for his statement that 80% in life is showing up!

The same “rule” applies to Dating With Success.

You’ve got to be willing to DARE showing up on a date, or in life.

Remember if you keep doing what you’ve always done, you will keep getting the same result.

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